Ahhh "money" and "saving" in the same sentence. I know! Trust me, it's not exactly my area of expertise (or enjoyment for that matter)! Just ask my husband and he'll tell you how (for want of a better word) hopeless I used to be at "saving!" But! Yes, there's a but…. When American Express asked if Mint Mocha Musings would like to collaborate and come up with some surefire tips for saving cash, admittedly I thought, while I've largely improved on the money front, I could probably do with some sage advice myself. You too? Read on. Let's face it, while it's not exactly the time of year to hold back on the spending (at least that's what I'm telling myself) it would be handy to have some extra cash up my sleeve once the jingle bells have rung out and Santa's skipped town. From where I stand, it's pretty easy for the festive merriment to hinder that normally sane judgement and hijack your hip pocket! Or is that just me convincing myself the carefree spending is all in the name of gallant gift giving and 'so and so' really needs that gorgeous handbag to go with that scarf and those earrings you've already bought! By Christmas Day I'm sure I'll be ready to quietly dip my head in the egg nog in a bid to while away the damage! January could be a lean month. So….I guess, the obvious thing here is to try and save money all year round, so by the time Santa's knocking on your door, asking for a list, well, you won't need to check it twice and cross off those expensive items. While this post is specifically talking about Hong Kong today, don't be thinking you can stick your head in the sand, my friends. Most of these savvy saving tips can apply to all and sundry, wherever you might be tucking into Christmas pud. So before you hit delete on this post, do yourself a favour and have a quick scan ahead! Ok so here goes….. five fab tips for making sure your Christmas (next year) is not fraught with a hefty price tag hangover! 1) GO PUBLIC Let's face it, in the sophisticated urban sprawl of Hong Kong, public transport is pretty remarkable. No arguments there right? For most people having a car is a luxury as opposed to a necessity. Taxis are (on a global scale) comparatively cheap but even better, there is the MTR, which is super clean, runs like clockwork and costs under $20 for a basic round trip. But you know what's even more cost effective? Yep, get out your brolly! Hong Kong's busses. Ok so the driving can be a little on the hairy side, tearing through the Kong in a 16 seater mini bus. But, at a fraction of the price of a cab, it's worth the 'fly by the seat of your pants' ride! Hong Kong's City Bus company is also pretty cost efficient for a longer journey across the city and out to the 'burbs. So next time you flag down an all too convenient taxi, give yourself a stern talking to and run to the nearest bus stop (just don't forget your brolly)! Ok, there are some exceptions like high heels, so if (like me) you still prefer the more convenient and comfort of a roaring red taxi here's my hot tip - rumour has it, there are 'discount taxis' with 20 per cent off the metered fares if you call ahead and spend a minimum of HK$50. Try it. Note: If you haven't purchased yourself an Octopus card you should be very ashamed!! Kidding, just hurry up and get one, pronto! It will save you money on both train and bus fares plus various other expenses like the 7-Eleven and Starbucks. (Not to mention its super convenient! You'll wonder how you EVER got along without one.) 2) GET WET Ok, so this applies to almost anywhere in the world, but particularly Asia, where Wet Markets are a way of life for locals. If you don't already shop like this, perhaps it's time to grab your shopping cart and get on board for some serious local action! (I'm assured the fruit and veges are equally as tasty and healthy as any you'd buy in the supermarket and at a third of the price.) There are Wet Markets all over town from Sheung Wan to Central, Wanchai, Kowloon and beyond….find your nearest spot and start stocking up. Hot tip -- Kwun Tong Wet Market is regarded as the cheapest in town. For a comprehensive list of where to get all your produce at rock bottom prices, check out this popular post by Mango Menus. And for a complete guide to what you can get at the markets and more importantly, what you can do with it, look no further than the fabulous Jasmine & Ginger! Sharon's got you covered from Dried Mushrooms to Lotus Root, Snake Beans and everything in between. 3) SHOP 'TIL YOU DROP Yes! Sometimes the last thing you feel like is heading to more than one place for your weekly groceries, but your budget will thank you for it. Shopping around is always a smart start to savvy savings. As well as getting your fruit, veg and meat at a reduced price, think outside the box and visit places like JUSCO for great for home ware; Prizemart for a great selection of cheaply priced toiletries…..take trips out to Sham Shui Po for party favors, arts and crafts and all your technical delights. Head to Sneaker Street and Sim City in Mongkok for all your electronic needs. Check in on chemists which often sell toilet rolls, wipes and the like at a cheaper price. 4) PLAY YOUR CARDS RIGHT You know the drill… you get an offer for a gazillion points or a chance to redeem cash back and well, it all seems too hard and far too unlikely to ever eventuate into anything meaningful. But, this is what you need to do… throw out that laissez faire attitude and start collecting your money's worth, because these card offers can turn some simple procedures into pure gold! Just to name a few, ParknShop.com has money back offers including gift coupons and awards. City Super offers a loyalty program and Mannings Chemist currently has a MannCard with points which can surprisingly add up very quickly! The Cathay Pacfic credit card enables you to collect points enables you to collect points shopping/wining and dining which can later be used to purchase flights around Asia. So, next time you get asked to sign up for a loyalty program, I urge you (and myself) to take the time and do it. 5) OWN IT ONLINE Yes! We all spend far too much time online, trawling our way through Twitter, Facebook and Instagram, but how about we put that finger tapping to good use? There are a myriad of online forums to buy, swap and sell just about anything your heart desires. You need to find these forums and follow them with vigor! Here are some that you should be on top of! mysale.hk SwapitHK BuySellSwap - Facebook HK Bargains - Facebook HK Mommy Marketplace - Facebook Hardly Worn It - Facebook Buy Sell Trade HK - Facebook HK Swap Toys - Facebook Free Hong Kong - Facebook Asia Xpat - Super Mondays Budgeting and Saving - Facebook Groupon Hong Kong iHerb NB: No matter where you are there's bound to be a few online groups singing to a similar tune. And with that, I bid you all a very Merry Christmas and a New Year, where you are free to spend up large!! *Sponsored by American Express....all ideas and words are my own.* … [Read more...]
We Are All One Type of Human – The Sydney Siege
Today like so many of you, my heart is heavy….the pit of my stomach hollow. The Sydney siege is playing on my mind. Glued to the television like thousands, maybe millions of others, I watched the tragic events unfold before me on Monday up here in North West China. Thankfully access to news channel CNN in the hotel, meant my lovely mum was spared having to text message me the harrowing details, bit by bit, piece by piece. If you watched, like me, you probably found it hard to tear yourself away from the rolling coverage that punctured our lounge rooms like a bad smell. Even if - as the hours wore on, and broadcasters seemed to be going around in circles having gleaned as much information as possible (which wasn't much) I began to wonder why so much attention was being paid to this story from the other side of the globe. But it was a story that captivated us. It could have been anywhere. A downtown cafe, morning coffee-lovers and a lone gunman on the loose. A cafe is a place we go to escape the outside world. A safe haven where we can relax in solitude or catch up with friends and loved ones. It's a drop in point, a start to the day and an end to the day. As I sit here writing this in a cafe, there's no denying these meeting spots are a central part of our lives. Along with the rest of the world, I watched on in horror, mulling over the big questions. Was he a terrorist? Was he acting within a group? Why? I watched as the puzzled and despairing faces of broadcasters bounced off my screen, some of them former colleagues and friends. This was our beloved Sydney. The relaxed and sunny harbour city with an attitude to match. A place where everything is plentiful and peaceful. There's a reason they call it the land of sunshine and mateship. Perhaps it's stretching the fairytale to say "bad" things don't happen Down Under, but by and large our shores have been untouched by terrorists. As with many stories lacking answers, people start looking for someone to blame. Animosity bubbled below the surface towards Islam and it threatened to erupt into an angry war of words and potentially so much more, amongst even the best of Australians. But, in what is quite possibly an unparalleled act of unity, by afternoon the hashtag #illridewithyou had gone viral. As rapidly as an Aussie bushfire sweeps through dense scrub, this one sentence rallied Australians together in the most uplifting way possible. From afar, I was bursting with pride. By late evening social media was swarming with posts praying for a peaceful outcome. Having watched three hostages fearfully escape for their lives earlier, but thankfully unharmed; I wrenched myself away from the tele and went to bed, naively thinking I would wake to hear they'd all met a similar fate and the horror of the day was over. Waking a little later than usual, my first contact with the outside world was a text from mum. I saw the words "a sad day" and suspected it hadn't gone well. I couldn't envisage just how badly though. For a brief minute, my subconscious wouldn't let me believe it. I frantically scoured Facebook and Twitter, scrambling for some semblance of words confronting me with the tragic truth. My first image was of wreathes laid out in Martin Place ...and I felt my gut contort. The Lindt Chocolate Cafe is not a cafe I've been in before, but I know Martin Place well. It’s etched in my memory after years of living and working in Sydney. Normally an inconsequential stretch for a stroll to meet friends; a popular spot where many friends have worked over the years (including my husband). Channel 7 and the Sky News bureau on its doorstep, restaurants where much laughter has been had, meetings held and one of the most important days of my life, my wedding at the Westin Hotel, No 1 Martin Place. I see posts from weary friends coming home after reporting in front of the camera and behind the scenes all through the night…..a tough stint to take on, on any given day. Their around the clock efforts are not lost on a world desperate for answers, but I feel their pain conveying such a distressing outcome. The journalist in me needs to know every detail so I trawl through every report I can find online, slowly letting the tragedy sink in. I'm reluctant to turn the TV on with my four year old girl at home. How do you explain such an horrendous event? The experts say don't even try. She senses my sombre mood and I try to give the word 'tolerance' a go. I find myself talking about her favourite colour pink and how just because someone else likes red instead, that's OK. I find it fitting that her Christmas concert here in Xi'an that night is called "The World of Christmas!" On stage we hear Merry Christmas spoken in five different languages. A phrase I've seen earlier in the day "we are all different but there is only one type of human" rings in my head. Staring sorrowfully into the faces of the two innocent victims, it's too easy to see a piece of ourselves in them. It hits home just how easy it could've been any one of us, any friend or any family member in that cafe..... and that chills me to the bone. These kinds of cowardly acts happen the world over far too frequently and it's always gut wrenching, but never is it more real than when it's on home soil. I talk to other expat friends over the days and we all feel the same. So close yet so far away. All I want to do is stand in Martin Place and feel the warmth of a nation beside me. Heartbroken for all those involved, especially those brave survivors and the courageous two we lost, know that friends the world over are united in mourning. Stay strong Australia. I'll Ride With You. … [Read more...]
Living in China: Is there a Doctor in the House?
So it's been one of those weeks in deep dark China, where our family needed a visit to the local GP…. Winter lurgies and all are upon us… and after a 20 hour journey from the sunny skies Down Under, to the rather chilly (make that freaking freezing) minus temps of Xi'an -- we're a bit under the weather (literally)! Of course a local GP is not something we've managed to acquire just yet in our short sojourn, so desperate for some TLC, we hesitantly put the call out for an English speaking doctor in town. (I'm told they are few and far between.) Thankfully Little Miss Hotelier's school gave us the lowdown and the next morning we were whisked off to a hospital on the other side of town for a general consultation. Turns out general doctor's clinics as we know in the West are not so common here - got a minor ailment like a cold, the flu, a bug, it's off to hospital, pronto! Most local Chinese people (children included) will immediately opt for the "injection" which is not as lethal as it sounds. Sources tell me it's a drip containing antibiotics. One hit and you're done, no take-home tablets….no medicine! Talk about hardcore. Sounds quite tempting if you ask me, but has left me wondering why the western world hasn't taken up this 'super injection' in the fight against ill health?' Is there a method in their madness? Stay tuned. Or if you know, please let me know! So into the hospital we go (picture 'old fashioned, 1950's grandeur') we are registered at reception and escorted by rather glamorous ladies in uniform (looking more like chic flight attendants) to our doctor's room. A rather sparse but cosy retro style abode….looking anything but clinical (not a stethoscope in sight)! I hold my breath….as we begin to explain why we are there. With our trusty 'ever patient personal translator' in tow for the event, it was a little easier to communicate with our doctor whose English, to be fair… was pretty good! But if you want to go into any sort of detail about your aches and pains, be prepared to launch into a quick game of charades. I must be getting good at waving my arms around frantically in some sort of translatable gestures, because he soon got the gist and got down to business giving my girl the once over. Then with a click of his heels, he was off, leaving us to wait in his room for.. about 20 minutes while he "collected" the drugs. I began to wonder if he was ever coming back or I missed something in translation and we were meant to see ourselves out. But finally he comes back medicine in hand… (a well known global brand of antibiotics, for the record). Having been able to purchase Amoxicillian antibiotics over the road at the local chemist without a prescription, the jury is out on their authenticity and thus, their effectiveness, so I was relieved to have these babies in my clutches. Excitedly, the doctor tells us how good it is to practice his English with his bevy of international patients and does us the courtesy of walking us all the way to the check out, three floors down, all the while chatting incessantly in Mandarin and English,while I frantically try to keep up! His spirits buoyed even more when I tell him my husband works at the Westin hotel, he promises to invite us to many "events"…. What's a new girl in town to do? "Count me in!" I hear myself saying! Fanciful (and most probably farcical) thoughts cross my mind of mingling with Xi'an's rich and famous at future medical soirees! Then he practically walks us to our car.….. this is certainly a new kind of medical experience, with some very personal patient service going on. (In Australia, GP's are so flat out, you're lucky if they open the door for you on the way out!) A couple of days later my 'lurgy' is not budging, so I want to get some better medicine…. did I mention this doctor has text me each day to see how my small person is? It seems I have a direct line to Doctor Who so I easily make an appointment via a text message to him. Now that's service huh! (As long as I don't get stuck in the Tardis!) This time I brave it without a translator, confident we can get through a simple consultation. (There's always charades right?) And we do….then he tells me in his broken English he thinks I am very 'charming' (must be the charades)! I grimace not sure how he's reached this conclusion given I am not really saying too much apart from my throat hurts!! and 'elegant' (again, I wonder about this observation, given I am in puffer jacket with flat boots and dirty hair - don't get me started on the one. single. pair of boots I have been wearing while I wait for our belongings to arrive!) Never thought I'd be desperate for some high heels! (Ok, slight exaggeration… given heels are my achilles heel, 'desperate' about now, is probably an understatement!) So I smile and give a 'xie xie' (thank you) as he asks if he can have a photo. I smile meekly again thinking he will forget soon enough…..brushing it off with a vague nod. But once we've paid and swapped language tips, we are suddenly standing in the middle of the rather large, lavish (hospital need I remind you) foyer and the camera is whipped out as one of the staff members is beckoned over to take our picture. Mr Doctor in his white coat, me in my rather daggy, early morning school drop off jeans and jumper. (FYI "daggy" is Australian for "uncool!") Out of the corner of my eye, I spy another staff member slyly moving in with her phone for a happy snap of me and my new friend. (A hospital foyer it may be, I think -- but better than the underground subway on a Sunday, bursting at the seams with people and having a woman run up through the crowds yelling "Welcome to China" "Can I have your photo!?!") Oh to be the foreign species. Again, I'm escorted to the car park by Mr Doctor, telling me to 'please come again.' For the record I'm hoping a doctor's visit is not a regular occurrence but I smile and nod. He adds, if I've got time, pop in and we can practice our English and Chinese (I'm guessing I don't need to be under the weather for this event)! Would I make an appointment? He stands at the hospital entrance, waving me off like a long lost friend, who's just been to his house for Sunday lunch! I giggle to myself as we drive off from the doctors..... service with a smile! This is China. Ps, Very happy to send this crazy post over to Seychelles Mama for her series on My Expat Family. Just click the picture. … [Read more...]
Ni Hao Xi’an: The Birth Place of Ancient Civilisation
Warning: this is not a history lesson but it may involve the words ancient, museum, monuments, ruins and dynasties! Three months into this relationship, it's time we learned a little bit about the new city in my life and its colorful past. Xi'an or "西安" -- literally translated means "Western Peace." I'm pretty confident though, most "westerners" as such have heard little about this enthralling city that - at first glance - is easy to pass off as merely another blip on China's monstrous radar of no less than 656 cities! But don't be fooled by this time-honoured nook, nestled in the country's north west. Xi'an along with the distinguished cities of Rome, Cairo and Athens, is hailed as one of the birth places of ancient civilization. And you thought we were in nowheresville! Impressive huh? Proud Xianese will tell you: if China were a tree; Beijing is its branches, Shanghai its leaves and Xi'an, its roots! 3100 years in the making, for 1200 of those, 13 dynasties placed their capitals in Xi'an - including Zhou, Qin, Han and the Tang dynasty (which by the way, until the Ming Dynasty in 1369 was known as Chang'an). China is a country ruled by a rich history of remarkable dynasties until 1911... and in Xi'an each one marked a period in time where the country's rulers (who typically originated from the one family until the final King was overthrown) played a major role in the city's momentous evolution. Under the Qin Dynasty in 221 to 206 BC, China was unified for the very first time. The first Emperor Qin Shi Huang - today well known for ordering a cast of thousands to construct his mammoth mausoleum and the now world-famous Terracotta Army, to guard it. Read about that 8th Wonder of the World, here. During its heyday, Chang'an was considered one of the largest and most populous cities in the world! Around AD 750 it was known as the "million people's city." Chinese records estimate around 800,000–1,000,000 lived within the city walls. In the Han Dynasty, Xi'an became the military and political centre of China - the Asian gateway to Europe. This strategic and economic importance was mainly due to its central position in China. The roads leading to several other major provinces including Sichuan, Hubei and Henan all converged here - with the mountainous country surrounding the Wei River basin - known as the cradle of Chinese civilization. There were only two roads through to the south, and two through mountainous Gansu to the west, thus forming the beginning of the ancient Silk Route. The legendary Silk Road was a series of trade and cultural transport routes 6,500 kilometers long, connecting the West with the East - linking traders, merchants, pilgrims, monks, soldiers, nomads, and urban dwellers from China and India, all the way to the Mediterranean Sea. By the turn of the Tang Dynasty (618—907) Xi'an, along with Constantinople (Istanbul) and Baghdad was one of the largest cities in the world. A cosmopolitan urban center home to many international residents from across Asia and beyond. It was also a major religious centre, mostly for Buddhism and Taoism. From my window I can see one of the few major Tang-era buildings left in Xi'an today. The Great Wild Goose Pagoda. 64 metres high, it stored the translations of Buddhist sutras obtained by a renowned Buddhist Master who returned to China in 645 after 15 years of travel across India and central Asia. So, how important is my neighbour? It was just added to the World Heritage list this year! The Tang Dynasty also saw the construction of Weiyang Palace the largest palace ever built on Earth! Covering 4.8 km² - it's almost seven times the size of the current Forbidden City, or 11 times the size of the Vatican City. Yep! If that's not enough history for you, Xi'an is also considered to be the last calling of the Stone Age. In 1953, a 6,500-year old Banpo Neolithic village was discovered on the outskirts of the city containing the remains of several well-organized Neolithic settlements, carbon dated back 6700 years! Xi'an is also home to the most complete city wall that has survived in China, as well being one of the largest ancient military defensive systems in the world. After an extension, the wall now stands 12 meters tall, covering 13.7 kilometres in length with a deep moat surrounding the wall including four gates, respectively named Changle (eternal joy) in the east, Anding (harmony peace) in the west, Yongning (eternal peace) in the south and Anyuan (forever harmony) in the north. The south gate in the city centre is the most beautifully decorated, near the Bell and Drum Towers (which were once used to keep time for the town and sound alarms). Today with a population of 8.5 million, Xi'an still stands strong as the largest metropolis in Northwest China. You can appreciate, it's an historical treasure chest and is now reemerging as a cultural and (with 50 universities) educational hub. In 2012 a report by the Economist Intelligence Unit named Xi'an as one of the 13 emerging megacities in China, home to global companies like Mitsubishi, Toshiba, Fujitsu, Coca-Cola, Samsung and Boeing. It's this plethora of historical monuments and ancient ruins in Xi'an that afford it the title Natural Museum History and make it one of the most popular tourist destinations in China. The saying goes: "Go to Shanghai and you will find a 100-year-old China; go to Beijing and you will find a 1000-year-old China; go to Xian and then you will find a 3000-year-old China." So, what are you waiting for? Come on over and say 'Ni Hao' to the new interest in my life. … [Read more...]
Hotel Confessions: Cushioned by the Five Star Bubble(s)!
Eight weeks in deep, dark China and hurrah, we are finally in our own apartment (albeit attached to the hotel…which in all honestly is proving more often than not, a 'godsend')! I've come to the conclusion (relatively quickly) living in the five star bubble is an outrageously indulgent, but highly necessary comfort when one is catapulted into central China. Sure, room service delivered at your beck and call and housekeeping every second day is not to be sneezed at, and a direct line to the hotel chef for groceries is part and parcel of hotel life, especially when food 'as you know it' is unavailable and the local supermarkets are filled with just that, 'local' goods displaying a plethora of puzzling Chinese characters. But more importantly when you're in a strange land and there's an emergency, be it serious or perhaps just the need for some decent coffee, oh how I'm thankful for the five star community. Our first night in our new abode (part of the Westin Residences) we'd spent the day packing and unpacking the few suitcases we have with us until our belongings arrive……(which miraculously seemed to have evolved into a fairly hefty amount of loot!) Unpacked and sorted, we looked around and exhaled - this was our spacious, bright, new and ever so modern 'pad' that would become our home in Xi'an. (BTW, now for no other reason than sheer interest value it might be a good time to mention we live above a RollsRoyce showroom? Oh yes we do! Mind you it's not uncommon with China's current insatiable appetite for luxury cars.) As I placed my one ornament in its lone spot, we stood back and exhaled with as much enthusiasm as we could muster, all the while swatting away the underlying but ever present realization that this meant we could no longer pretend we were on an extended sabbatical. This is real. China is officially home. Any self indulgent, self pitying thoughts though were soon met with an abrupt slap when our small person's fingers accidentally met the hot plate in our shiny new kitchen. Of course every parent in this situation silently prays it's not serious and all will be soothed with a cuddle and a kiss (and a lolly or three)…. Here of all places, I was desperately hoping it wasn't a hospital visit, where I suspected there would be no English and it would be a scene resembling anything that we know to be normal. "Please no," I whispered as I watched the tips of her red raw fingers bubble up before us. It was quickly apparent it was one of those moments where an expert opinion was called for, so through tears and anxious parental pacing (thank God for the long hallway) we frantically called the hotel's weekend Manager on Duty, who instantly knew which doctors did house calls and how to call or more importantly 'what' to say. Within 30 minutes they were on our doorstep, along with two hotel staff to translate. It was just as well - because in a moment of shock, dealing with the surreal experience of these two doctors who arrived - their white mini vans with giant red crosses - like something out of the sixties, marching out in their white coats, silver 'doctor's' cases at their side was more than enough to cope with. As anticipated, not a scrap of English was to be spoken as they crowded around me and my whimpering girl on the bed. I heard the words 'Soy Sauce' and 'burn remedy' mentioned in the same sentence and tried not to look alarmed. Thankfully it seemed it wasn't too serious, and their would be no soy sauce or painkillers issued ("these are unhealthy for the body" I'm told - mind you this coming from the land who gobbles up antibiotics sold over the counter sans prescription at an accelerated rate.) I was silently thankful for the kid's Nurofen stashed in the cupboard. The next day, frazzled nerves now calmed, I had the chance to revel in the number of cupboards it seems I now have access to… in my own. private. space. Or so I thought. But it has become rather apparent, you can't just pick and choose the elements of hotel life you prefer. Nicole! if you want the hotel life, you get all of hotel life. The door bell rang at 9am sharp, someone eagerly letting themselves in - at the ready to clean my rather sparse house. Er…um…. put on the spot and slightly conflicted between my want for privacy and those oh so hard to make hotel heavenly beds. My poorer better judgement prevailed and I sent them away….but they were not to be deterred…..before too long, two elderly Chinese ladies sidled on past our 'floor to ceiling' windows, wielding a large broom, evidently sweeping the already spotless balcony and not without having a good peek inside at us - the foreign species on the block! Taken aback but not too shocked - after all I had started to become used to a lack of privacy in my 5th floor hotel suite where maintenance men, housekeeping, laundry ladies, you name it, regularly knocking twice, walking in before I had the chance to get to the door. But things were about to reach a brand new level at the Westin Residences. The two ladies clearly not satisfied with meandering by, were now crouching down at the window of our bedroom, faces pressed hard against the window, waving furiously and smiling at us… I didn't know whether to laugh or cry. Instead, I ran to another room to process (in private) what was unfolding on my balcony, before gingerly peering around to see if my daughter was still being eye-balled. Yes. Yes she was. Um…last time I checked I wasn't a goldfish, had two heads or looked liked Angelina Jolie. I gently closed the curtains with a tight-lipped smile. A couple of days later feeling a little under the weather with a winter lurgy, I had an unexpected snooze in the middle of the day (by now 'snooper' savvy, I made sure my Do Not Disturb button was on) but woke to a knock, ignored it…thinking like in any normal circumstances, they'd appropriately exit the building. But oh no…next thing a loud cacophony of "Ni Haos" echoed through the house. Stumbling into the hallway I found four faces looking at me as if to say, ah hello what are you doing here? Er Me? I live here! Who the hell are you!! It's all par for the course it seems when you take on the machine that is China. Xi'an is a city whose people until a decade ago had one five star hotel in their midst. A city that until recently established as a tourist spot very rarely saw a western face. With 8.5 million people all busily competing for a spot amongst the madness, privacy is respected in the loosest sense of the term. But alas, our curious friends aside, I am thankful for the hotel….heck my laundry is done and they serve wine 24 hours a day, even if most varieties are "out of order" unless it's the hard stuff (namely Bai Jiu) you're after. I'm thankful that (power cuts aside) in the hotel world we get a smattering of English channels like BBC, CNN and Sky News - even if the quality of the picture is influenced by seemingly outside circumstances. I'm thankful that when I've been out of the bubble into a foreign world where your brain is sapped of energy not only by the winter chill and imposing pollution, but by just going about your regular tasks like buying a coffee or a can of hairspray - not to mention fending off the constant stares, touches and chatter of passersby, more often than not chasing you down for a chance photo (yes even at midnight boarding a plane) -- I can return to the bubble and seek out friendly familiar faces to chat to in English (relatively easily) about trivial things and have a giggle at our foreign woes. Thankful that I have a driver(s) even if some of them can''t speak any English to take us where we need to go in the ancient capital that's overflowing with all manner of transport….from rickety three wheelers to luxury limos. Thankful that despite crossing five lanes of maniacal traffic, they expertly whiz us through the mighty Xi'an streets on our morning school run. For all intents and purposes, they greet us with a smile, wait patiently for us and most of all, watch our backs (not to mention teach me a new Chinese word every day). I am thankful for the staff who entertain my daughter in the lavish Lobby Bar while I catch up on some work, with a hot mocha in hand that I haven't had to chant the words 'no cream thanks' in Chinese over and over in my head before they take my order, in case I forget. I'm thankful for an internet signal full stop! Even if it's notoriously patchy and takes me three times as long to achieve anything. And as for the bigger things like visa fiascos, I'm thankful for Hotel's HR staff, fluent in English, who can fill in the blanks between our Qing's (please) and Xie Xie's (thank you's)! It's been a challenging two months, but gently cushioned by bubbles of the five star variety. For that I'm thankful! Cheers! … [Read more...]
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