Hey there, Today is officially launch day for China Blonde! It's also the beginning of Mid-Autumn Festival across Asia, and National Day in China (and Ava tells me it's also Star Stable's birthday....*trying not to roll my eyes here*) ;) So lots of good reasons to celebrate!! No book launch yet, due to the 'Covid situation' but hey, it could be worse, this is a very first world problem, so until then I'll continue scurrying around Sydney, swilling a champers here and there with a few friends, delivering China Blonde into their hot little hands. Today though I want to share with you an interview (well it's more like a chat) I did a few months ago with three beautiful women who lived in Xi'an China with me at the same time. We have a wine, a giggle and give you a little insight into what life is like living in China. Enjoy..... And if you still want to get your copy of CB... just click here. … [Read more...]
CHINA BLONDE: How a newsreader’s search for adventure led to friendship, acceptance….and peroxide pandemonium in China.
Hello my friends! Break out the champers, because CHINA BLONDE - the memoir is here!!! If you've been following Mint Mocha Musings for awhile now, like I know so many of you loyally have since 2012 (yes it's been that long), you've probably heard me talking about writing a book.... a lot. And, you've probably wondered if I was making it up -- I don't blame you, it's taken that bloody long! But let me tell you, there is nothing remotely quick about writing a book. I've always wanted to write a book, don't all journos think they've got a book in them? Ha! Probably. But, in all reality, I had no idea what my first book would be about....that is until I got to China. Then it all became 'oh so clear'. Xi'an - this fascinating second-tier city of nine million people, the first ancient capital of China. A city bearing thousands of years of history. Fascinating... until I had to live there. You may remember, culture shock hit me head on like a lightening bolt. Waking up that very first morning, daring to peek outside the hotel window, I felt like I couldn't breathe. Sure, I'd lived in Hong Kong for four years, the Pearl of the Orient. I'd been spoilt and I'd grown to love the glittering harbour city so fiercely, I wanted to call it my forever home. I also, rather foolishly, thought the fragrant harbour had me prepared for mainland China. How wrong I was. … [Read more...]
Ground Hog Day: This is what life in China’s Coronavirus lockdown is really like.
"Ever heard of the movie Ground Hog Day? Well that pretty much sums up how we feel." Those are the words of my good friend, Jenna, living in Xi'an, North West China with her husband and two girls, nine and thirteen. "With school closed until at least the 18th of February, it's get up, breakfast, exercise, play with toys, boardgames, cook, repeat," she says. Xi'an is in Shaanxi Province which shares a border to the south with Hubei Province, and its capital Wuhan, the epicentre of the Coronavirus outbreak. Currently over 20,000 people worldwide have developed the virus with over 400 confirmed deaths. While that figure is steadily rising, and has now overtaken the death toll from SARS, it's still only a two per cent fatality rate. But China's Communist Party is taking no chances. At least not at face value. The outbreak has prompted a response unlike any other in modern history, with Chinese authorities locking down many cities and towns around Wuhan, the city of 11 million where it's believed the virus originated in a market selling wild animals. That's tens of millions of people effectively shut off from the outside world. Anyone who's ever been to China will tell you, there's rarely a quiet moment in the nation with the world's largest population. The streets are at best, chaotic - humming with people, cars, busses, motorbikes, food carts, and street cleaners, day and night -- all fighting for their space amongst the pandemonium. The noise can be almost deafening. But not this month. "It feels very eery, like a ghost town, everything is closed down. The only places that are required to stay open are the supermarkets and hospitals. At our complex one gate is completely sealed off, with one left open for us to get out and go shopping. No one from outside the building is allowed in. No family, no friends." "The days are still and far too silent for this city of 9 million people." says Jenna, who having lived in China for 13 years, has seen it all. Her main concern though is the millions who sell fruit and veggies at the local wet markets or run local restaurants. "How are they going to get an income?" she wonders. "At least the big companies are looked after by the government." An Australian friend Robyn, who's been in China for nine years, and was due to return home to Australia any day now (flights depending) is feeling bereft that there will be no goodbyes in person, no last hot pot meals, just a quiet exit. "We are now very isolated in this crowded city," she says. She has a friend who lives in the south east of Henan, very close to the border of Hubei Province, just three hours drive from Wuhan. She tells her, all roads into my village are barricaded. "So instead of the normal flocks of people returning to celebrate Spring Festival, my village is very quiet. Everyone is bored and strangely no groups of people are milling around talking and no children are playing." Temperature taking is the new norm across the Middle Kingdom. Officials in full Hazmat-style body suits are taking temperatures at random, catching people when they go out, and when they return home, and everything is being recorded. Police and security guards are knocking on people's doors to check if anyone in the household's feeling unwell, is harbouring any visitors or has travelled anywhere in the past week. And in a nation that survives on Taobao deliveries with thousands of little Tuk Tuks weaving in and out of laneways delivering packages to one and all 24/7, now, all deliveries are left at the gates, making contact minimal. Messages come through on We Chat, the What's App equivalent, informing people there will be 'centralised spraying of medicinal drugs by aircraft." What drugs nobody is really sure. The communal areas in Jenna's apartment are regularly sprayed down with vinegar, while a friend's complex is doused in bleach. Public transport is down to a bare minimum. Didi the Uber equivalent has stopped and taxis are few and far between. If you do manage to hale a taxi and they stop, you need to show your passport; all details are recorded including where they picked you up and dropped you off. In Wuhan, naturally, things have reached another level with almost everything closed. Bibby, a Chinese local says, people are told not to go out unless it's an absolute emergency. "Supermarkets are open for a limited time from 10am to 6pm with meat and veggies the most difficult to buy, and always the first thing to run out." Face masks, which have usually only been an accessory for foreigners protecting themselves against the heavy pollution are now mandatory, or face a hefty fine. Hotel General Manager, Peter, in Shenzhen, China's far southwest, had just come through the border crossing from Hong Kong after evacuating his teenage daughter, when he messaged me. "It's unheard of but almost no-one is at immigration and everyone going through has to fill in a health declaration." He has 400 hotel staff due back from various provinces around China after Chinese New Year and is renting rooms to quarantine them. Meantime, in Hong Kong, thousands of medical workers have gone on strike, demanding the city’s government shut down all of its borders with mainland China, to keep out the spread of the virus they call WARS. Many foreigners have chosen to leave the city which is already reeling from months of pro-democracy protests, not to mention the 2003 SARS epidemic which still weighs heavily on the city. Hong Kong local, Mona, says back then, they all worked together to fight the disease but 2020 is very different. "We urged the government to close the borders as quickly as possible but they are not listening." "Because of no planning the supply of masks is extremely tight and people are queuing up for four to five hours to buy just one box of masks, with some stores selling them for HKD900 (US$115). Hong Kong infectious disease experts are urging the government to take 'draconian' measures, estimating as many as 44,000 people could be infected in Wuhan, a figure far higher than official numbers. Amongst the uncertainty, it's believed the epidemic could peak around the end of April, early May. This article from Well Women explains why, despite the risk, so many expats are still choosing to stay in China. For them, ground hog day or not, it's still home and in many instances, probably safer than travelling. Nicole Webb is a Sydney Journalist, Writer and Speaker who spent seven years in China. Her debut memoir 'China Blonde' will be out mid 2020. … [Read more...]
Do You Want to Work Overseas? Tips for Choosing the Right Country.
Where Should I Move? Ask anyone who’s moved overseas for a work stint for either themselves or their partner and I'm pretty sure they'll tell you, it was a mind-altering and mind-expanding experience, and one that is likely, never to be forgotten. Even if it wasn’t quite the job of their dreams or the place they’d hoped would become their home away from home, people generally come out of these experiences a little wiser (and jaded). No just kidding! I mean fulfilled, of course! Changed forever. So, if you just happen to be toying around with the idea of moving overseas or find yourself in the enviable position of being offered a job abroad, this post might be for you. Here are a few questions you might want to ask yourself first. Does the Culture of the Country Interest You? Now, here’s a good one. We all know that experiencing a different culture is a life-changing experience, which can be both good and bad. When I think about our time in Hong Kong and in mainland China, the cultural experiences we had, still blows my mind. Was I interested in Chinese culture before we moved to Hong Kong? Truthfully, not overly, but I had been to Hong Kong before and at the very least, the glittering harbour city had me intrigued. It was so different to anywhere I’d ever lived as far as everything from the traditions to the customs, foods, ways of living and thinking. And when we lived there, whilst my mind felt like it was on a continual roller coaster ride, absorbing new knowledge faster than you could say, "I want to get off," it was invigorating. Of course, the more I found out, the more I wanted to learn, and the more addicted to living life on the edge, I became. And of course, as you know, we then moved to the mainland and that was a whole different beast! But one I was eager (if a little naively) to go head to head with. Suffice to say, your transition to your new home, will be much more rewarding if you feel positive towards the country and take an active interest in that country's culture. If the country you’re transferring to is completely alien to you, chances are you can expect to feel some sort of culture shock (which is a very real thing, trust me) and adjusting isn't always easy. The more mentally ready you are for it, the better off you'll be. Ask yourself if you can handle the differences in living standards, language barriers, food, cultures, etc. Imagine what it's like to be somewhere where the usual holidays and traditions you embrace aren’t even celebrated, not even Christmas. It might be a tough ask but you'll definitely find out what you're made of. For some, there are things that are simply deal breakers. And that's ok. Not everyone's cut out to live away from home. You need to really want to experience something out of the ordinary and be prepared to stick it out for the long haul, hurdles and all. Try to find someone who's lived and worked their before, to get their views on what to expect. And if you can, having prior knowledge of the market your new role will operate in it will definitely be to your advantage. There's every chance, you'll hit the ground running with limited opportunity to do this. It will only make you more effective in your role if you can reduce what can be a super steep learning curve. Are You Allowed to Be There? This is an obvious one, but you’d be surprised to know how difficult it can be getting work visas for some countries and it often comes down to your home country’s relationship with the country you're transferring to. Obviously, if you're going with a company whose sponsoring you, they will endeavor to support you in every way possible and the transfer process is likely to be a lot easier. You'll still need to comply with all the regular rules and regulations of getting a visa in that country though. Take our first visa experience in China for instance, you can read here for some idea of what we went through! Chaotic and confronting, to say the least! Oh, and there’s nothing worse than getting everything ready to move, both mentally and physically, only to be told you can’t get a work visa. This also goes for spouses accompanying you, make sure they’re up to date with the country’s laws and their expectations aren't going to be crushed when they arrive. Some partners might expect to start a job instantly too, but just because you’re living there with your employed spouse, there are many countries you simply won’t be able to work in. And make sure your visa doesn’t expire while you’re there. In some countries this means grave consequences, like deportation or even imprisonment. And do make sure you dig out all that paper work and pack it safely in your luggage. Here are a few expat mistakes I've learned along the way, that you can hopefully avoid. ;) What Job Prospects Are There For You? Chances are you will want more than just a ‘living’ wage when you make the gigantic decision to move to a new country. You’ll be leaving behind much of your support network and you’ll likely incur a lot of expenses during your adjustment period. Obviously, it’s a far better option to have a job waiting for you in your destination country, but if that's not the case, be sure to arm yourself with enough savings to last you, until you are, at the very least, employed. In fact, even if you have been guaranteed immediate employment, it can never hurt to have savings for that rainy day. You never know what can go wrong and in a strange country, this could make or break you. Check out the country's wage and tax structures and make sure you know the legalities on filing tax returns there and back home. What salaries and living expenses can you expect? While we’re on salaries, when you’re talking about lifestyles in different countries, gross salaries aren't always the perfect predictor of the quality of life you can expect. Different countries can mean vastly different costs of living as well as perks that don’t necessarily reflect how enjoyable (or unenjoyable) a country can be to live in. For instance, a developed country like Japan, Singapore or Hong Kong with an excellent public transportation system may have relatively high living costs, but being able to move around easily and affordably can make all the difference. I'm thinking of Hong Kong with its affordable and efficient train systems and 'cheap as chips' taxis. There's no urgent need for a car, which is a huge savings. If you are presented with a 'job package' before you decide to take the plunge, keep all that in mind. The salary may be lower than what you're used to but there could be considerable tax breaks and lifestyle savings. Comparably, in mainland China, the cost of living was relatively cheap, but the quality of life was also significantly more challenging than back home. For us at least. Look at how much food costs, power, internet, petrol, cars, schooling etc. All of these expenses can be game changers if you’re not prepared. Oh and if you want to know some of the cheapest cities to rent in. Check this post out. While we're on schooling, if you are taking children with you, it pays to know exactly what sort of schooling your country of choice has. Are there international schools, do they speak your child's language, is the curriculum on par with theirs at home and how much are school fees? Moving overseas can be just as tough for our kids. Here are few tips to help them. How Safe is it? Naturally, political, cultural, and economic strife can be cause for concern, and these issues can directly affect crime rates and YOUR safety. Even things like the traffic situation, as well as the state of public works and infrastructure, can have a direct bearing on your health and safety. Think about how well buildings are made and what sort of weather conditions impact the country. For example, is it a place regularly affected by typhoons? If so, does the infrastructure reflect this. What about hygiene standards? Do you need to be cautious about what you can and can’t eat? Are there quality hospitals and medical facilities in place? Before you move, check whether the company you’re working for provides health insurance. If not, I can't stress enough how important it is to invest in international health insurance. There are plenty of packages targeted at expats and overseas workers. Now Health International and other specialized insurers are usually able to offer wide coverage for lower rates. How Important is it to Have a Support Network of People? Some countries are especially popular destinations for expat workers, whether it’s because of the living conditions, geographical location, work opportunities, tax breaks etc. Moving to a new country or even just a different state or province can be incredibly difficult, and while I believe there will always be an adjustment period (I give it nine months, just like a pregnancy), having likeminded people who’ve moved out of their comfort zone, around you, will make everything that much easier. Of course, you want to try and meet the locals as well, but bear in mind, the more unique a host culture is to your own, the harder it might be to find fellow expats who’ve got your back. Before you go, think about taking language classes and studying as much as possible about your prospective host culture. On a work level, if you're in a key expat city, join some local organisations, such as InterNations or the relevant Chamber of Commerce. Otherwise, seek out other expats in similar roles. It's a great opportunity to learn and connect with likeminded career professionals and you won't feel so alone in your new role. No matter how hesitant you feel, if you’ve got the bug, I say, go do it! We only live once, right? No matter how challenging and different to your own country, and no matter how long or short your stay is, one thing I’ve learned is you’ll never regret it. Go forth and conquer! … [Read more...]
Gidday, Ni Hao, Kia Ora……Can You Have More Than One Hometown?
What’s the first thing you ask someone you’ve just met? “Where are you from?” Or “Where’s home for you?” Especially if you’re an expat, right. The words literally roll off your tongue, after, “Hi, I’m So and So.” And even if you’re not living overseas, it doesn’t take long for the inevitable question to crop up in conversation, “So, is this your hometown?” I never quite know what to say to that - "Well, I'm from Australia, but I was born in New Zealand....but we've been living in Asia, ummmm." Recently, I went back to my place of birth, New Zealand. It’d been 15 years! Needless to say, I was taken aback when the friendly lady at Customs said “Welcome Home!” And just quietly, it had me feeling a little bit nostalgic. Living overseas, as in not Australia, for a significant chunk of that 15 years, meant it was no longer a hop, skip and a jump across the ditch and well, life just got in the way. This time though, I had my husband, my Small Person and my mum along for the ride. I invited (some may say coerced) them into taking a trip down memory lane with me. We went back to the suburb I grew up in, we did a drive-by past several of my old houses, my primary school - still looking startling familiar after 40 years, and we pulled into the carpark of my old high school… which was also my mum’s! (Oh the memories!) We even, at my insistence, went down to the beach, where I made my first sandcastles and spent hours wiling away the dreamy days of an idyllic childhood with my grandparents, who’ve long passed. The trip back, got me thinking about the importance of place. Psychologist say, memories are cued by the physical environment. When you visit a place you used to live, these cues can cause you to revert back to the person you were when you lived there. The rest of the time, different places are kept largely separated in our minds. (Sorry if I reverted back to that sulky teenager who lived on a diet of potato scallops and milkshakes.) Does our birth place hold a piece of our heart, indefinitely? Growing up spending many a school holiday on my granddad’s boat, I'm definitely at my calmest and happiest when there’s water within my eye’s reach. Obviously, the factors that influence our identities are too numerous and complex to investigate in this single post but just how much or how little our birthplace shapes us, it seems, after doing some research of my own, is still debatable. For me, after 31 years in Australia, give or take a few, I feel more like an Aussie than a Kiwi. There’s little trace left of the former ‘fush n chups’ accent (except when I’m tired or have too many vinos); the sunburnt country long ago captured my heart. But here’s the clincher, I’m still not an Aussie citizen. Gasp! (Luckily, I’m not going into politics!) A couple of reasons have stopped me, mostly I credit laziness to this inability to take the citizenship test! I mean, I’ve covered more Australia Days as a journalist than I’ve had burnt sausages on a barbie. And in those early days, being a Kiwi in Oz, didn’t have much of an impact on those all important things, like free university tuition, etc.. But maybe, just maybe there’s a little bit of guilt or is it reluctance to let go? Does giving up your allegiance to your home country mean you’re saying goodbye to your past? (There was no dual citizenship back then.) I still find myself torn whenever the All Blacks are playing the Wallabies (I mean we all know who’s going to win, don’t we)? ;-) And I get a chill down my spine when the Haka plays - sometimes I have to stop myself from launching into the actions. When I’m called on to recite a song (and this happens more than you might think) I always choose the Maori song, Tutira Mai Nga Iwi, I learned in primary school. And I still miss certain things unique only to the Land of the Long White Cloud. Namely and most importantly my family members who still reside there, and I’m still partial to a Chocolate Thins biscuit, a Snifter or a glass of L & P. People often tell me, the fact that Ava, our small person, was born in Hong Kong and lived in Asia until she was six years old will have a big impact on her. Will it, I wonder? She’s what they call a Third Culture Kid (TCK) - a phrase coined by an American sociologist, referring to a child who’s spent a significant part of their formative years outside their parents culture. (Her Dad's English just to add to the equation.) People who fit the TCK bill have a tendency to mix and merge their birth culture with their adopted culture, creating one of their own: a third culture. Born in Hong Kong to a New Zealand-born mum, an English dad, (both her and him with Aussie citizenship) and three formative years in Xi'an China. Where's home? There’s no denying she’s more at home with chopsticks; and dim sum and rice are her favourite foods. She's more au fait with Chinese New Year than Australia Day, and perhaps it’ll be a favourite Chinese song she remembers in time over an Aussie one. Ask her where she’s from - it's undoubtedly Hong Kong. But Australia's blue skies and endless parks have definitely hit her sweet spot. For me, living in Hong Kong and Xian, my roots became more poignant than ever. So far away from everything I knew, we celebrated ANAC Day and Australia day with more gusto than I ever had on home soil. Even Melbourne Cup pulled on the heart strings. Experts say place does shape us at a fundamental level. We all learn to communicate and understand our world through sharing language, customs, behaviours, beliefs and values. And in all reality, doesn't each town, city, state and country has it’s own local vocabulary, accents, values, ideas, economies, industries, local newspapers and radio stations? In essence, it’s very own unique culture. Heck, in China each province has its own culinary delights. Winston Churchill famously proclaimed that “we shape our buildings, and afterwards, our buildings shape us. I’ve stolen this quote from Cup of Jo’s fabulous blog, by actress Helen Mirren, “Where you grew up becomes a big part of who you are for the rest of your life. You can’t run away from that. Well, sometimes the running away from it is what makes you who you are.” Identity is attached to a sense of belonging, usually through family ties or deep emotional connections and it's pretty evident we all bare some of the cultural and emotional legacies, whether good or bad from our hometowns. Environmental psychologist Susan Clayton says: “For better or worse, the place where we grew up usually retains an iconic status. Is it any wonder memories of finding and eating oysters off the rocks at five years old are forever etched in the bowels of my mind. The iconic Pacific oyster! It might not be home now, but saying “Haere Ra…..” (Goodbye) forever to New Zealand was never really an option And as Henning Mankell says, "You can have more than one home. You can carry your roots with you and decide where they grow." I like that idea. What do you think? Do you have one home or many? To read more about where home is, check out The Expat Magazine's article Where is Home? here Read, about our repatriation back Down Under here... … [Read more...]
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